and NO MORE 12TH HOUSE PARTNERS FOR ME!! so i point it out, and im more aware. You are using an out of date browser. He also has his natal Sun, Venus and Mercury in his 12th house. In a synastry chart, Venus in the 12th House can indicate a spiritual or karmic connection between the two individuals. My TWIN SIDE also is grateful, but is now more underground, and that may actually be a blessing, as I also began to mirror his BAD actions and ill temperaments. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding. I am not saying there is not a spiritual/psychic or unconscious connection but don't assume he has other feelings than what he has clearly said. Thank you for any input/comments. It is strange how much this makes sense: I have my moon in his 12 house and he's got his Neptune in my 12. Pretty much text book situation. Pisces is the sign without boundaries. When we are together its like time is nothing. Venus in 12th House Personality Traits | Ryan Hart be on the look out for that cute Pisces man with an Air Moon and a Fire Mars. If he truely loves you, he will sooner or later find his way back to you. And I do, I don't ever want to judge or criticize him. But, he is the one who has been a sort of confessional from the very beginning. At least in a romantic situation, often what happens is that the house person doesn't "feel" or has a hard time seeing the love of the Venus person. More so after 15 years. Sign up here! I only noticed it after my 12th-Houser came into my life and affected me deeply that is when my own natal Gemini placement came out in me full and strong. On a very genera Don't forget to check out your monthly love horoscopes ! You are probably this person's "type.". Sun conjunct saturnSun conjunct venusSun conjunct mercury (double whammy)Sun conjunct sun, ------------------Gemini sun 12thCancer asc 1stTaurus moon 11thTaurus venus 11thLibra mars 3rdGemini mercury 11th, Copyright 2000-2013 At least I know now that I'm not the only one spilling my water in the 12th house, lol. An Unaspected Venus in synastry has a different slant. A stripping of the egos for sure! His moon fall in my 5th house. But yet together telepathically and spirtually. There is always a lesson and something you will learn and realize that the relationship was fated for some purpose bigger than you origionally thought but not meant to live out in this lifetime. At least I know I'm not the only one who is going through this. Long story short I am finally over MY 12th House love for many of the reasons posted by Morag. Sorry, Mr. Gemini . My daughter and i also have gemini mercury and my baby girl also has venus in gemini. Guess that his Sun/Gem didnt like me pursuing him, but he toyed with me from time to time as he was, natch, curious about how I worked. Its like the sayingif you Love someone let them go. All information I have is the planet can see through the house person like cristal. Lifelong, apparently Dad was a Sun/Gemini, Mom was a Sun/Scorpio the WORST connective relationship ever! I started seeing a guy whose Venus is in my 12th house as well as his Mercury in my 12th house. just keep on going in the OPPOSITE direction away from me as FAR AS YOU CAN!! It's amazing. Venus Synastry: 12th House Overlay in Astrology - ASTROFIX The following is important: Is this a day chart or a night chart (was the sun up or down when the person was born). I guess the best way I can describe it is as if it's partially a dream. Problem is that I feel like I know his soul. Sounds karmic or so I think. Uck. ouch ouch! I find myself wondering if it's happening because maybe I am picking up on him obsessing about it. The person whose Venus is in the 8th house of their partner adores their partner very much. Its like that alcoholics anonymous quote of acceptance of who you are thats why its not good for people to judge other people because they are not and never understand how to live in their shoes. Some dont want to, ever. I've never felt such a connection before, the passion too. I cared abt him so much but I read that the mars person is the antagonist. I knew he got around a lot so I was always afraid of letting him in but Im afraid I caused all the distance. If venus is strong and well aspected than here is deep emotional and truthworthy conection. The Sun person sees in the 11th house person someone, who they can spend pleasant time with. Ha interesting this 12th house isn't it? The sign over the 12th house also is a big signifier. He shows me he cares with actions and he has told me twice he is in love with me. I need help with my situation. I've been rather busy these days but am always happy to answer questions:) The 12th house is about as mysterious and the afterlife! In a synastry chart, this is indicative of strong affection and attraction. But I have to work with him and Im afraid he can realize and maybe use this against me. If a person is open to the supernatural, this would be a positive thing to see in an overlay. One who never had to deal with neptune before would have it very difficult to submerge themselves past the toes dipping. The 12th house Synastry: Love behind the scenes. However, I have a group of planets that fall my husbands twelfth house and hes had no complaint with it. Im more of a silent reader but this one hit home, so I ll share my two cents. I leave, but I always come back after a while. It's such a surreal feeling. Obsessive, perhaps a bit and with your planets in the 8th I am sure it's not one way:). Posts: 1873. He knows exactly how I feel about him because I've told him precisely and he doesn't feel the same way but he is always so concerned about if I'm dating/talking with anyone. In synastry, when someone's Venus is in your 2nd House, this person is a supportive influence for you. I'm not all that great with articulating stuff that's not of this world. We also share moon Conj Mars, moon and Pluto Conj & trine. We work well together and it is always professional. Okay, this advice is not even remotely astrological, but take it from a person who dated a lot, and always with an intention to settle in a committed relationship. Im not about mind-games or double messages or emotional landmines waiting in the trenches. thus I didnt want to be like him. and weirdly 12th house does later show the othher person to live in those shoes. You are BLESSED!! I am very partnered elsewhere in my life but looked up his chart because he feels like family or someone i knew in a past life or something. I also have met two men, 1 in the past and the other one currently that many of my planets fall into their 12th house. I never know what hes thinking, which is rare for me. Ouch!We do not see clearly, we imagine things differently than they are, we trust, we assume, we are not working with facts but what we want to believe and feelings. This is the area of life devoted to spirituality, imagination, confining institutions, and secret enemies, the hidden side of life; in synastry, the impact of one person's planets on another's 12th House indicates the manner in which they affect their spiritual experience and either promote or retard the other's own self-undoing. I act so stupid around him and he makes it hard for me to think properly at all. But it's OK because we love being around each other. So, know that their insecurities and feelings may get in the way of connective relationships. Juno in Twelfth House. When I think about it, it makes me sad we aren't together. When we met I felt like I had seen him before..we started talking online then decided to meet. Your relationship usually starts out as a friendship or as "good friends". . Elsa tried to warn me, but I couldnt hear. It's all about 12th house. When Im with him its like everything else in the world just melts away. Otherwise we kind of don't touch. People who are willing to fully trust can let themselves loose in the 12th house if you show hesitation than it can make a big difference. Now, the twelfth house is a tricky house when it is activated in synastry. Plus his venus is in cancer and my north node and asc are in cancer. However,from reading the comments here, it seems that the planet person can be just as affected as the house person. Am THANKFUL that it finally ended, but at the same time I value the lessons learned from our dance. His Venus squares my Vertex. Im terribly afraid of this 12th house. so we didnt mentioned it untill the last month, i couldnt stand it anymore, and i wanted clairity, if he ever had felt for me. ------------------Air woman. This is a very private house, and it holds all of our self conscious fears, most of the time we don't like this house activated especially if this is a person that will use this against us.If the Mars person is selfish and self-serving, he or she may use their knowledge of your bad habits, blind spots and personality weaknesses to manipulate or hurt you. Without knowing of his opposite actions that indicate his interest in you, its hard to weigh this and determine what the deal is. Feeling an intense attraction but beyond the physical, even that he was the personification for what I find attractive in the opposite sex. How do you think it would play out his Mars in 12th conjunct my Ascendant???. 6 Keeping the Flame Alive. It is a great placement in synastry, of course depending on other aspects to the degree. i do notice that if someone has 12th house moon and im also 12th moon, we mirror eachother. He inspires it or mirrors it and you feel close to him because of this. Despite their great physical attraction towards each other, the Venus person often feels saturated with mystery and attraction of the 8th house. Only because I feel his Mars in my subconscious,yelling at me to do better and not understanding that I dont respond well to that. He bitches if i drink too much wine lol. I always wonder whether he has feelings for me or not. Your Venus in Your Partner's Houses Truly Divine I have something of a business relationship with someone. You find yourself so drawn to them, and you will find them irresistible. He was drinking often(neptune) and because of this we had frequent conflicts(square to venus). His venus in your 12th, according to what I know, probably means that you're attracted because he brings out hidden parts of you. This could be the unconditional kind of love people look for, its about whether or not you can handle it. Plus we both have gemini suns. It may not display this or other websites correctly. My Sun, Venus and MErcury are in Aries and fall into his 12th, my moon in Sagittarius falls int his 7th and 8th and his moon in Scorpio into my 5th and his jupiter into my 1st. We have our moons in each others first houses which for my cancer stellium does a lot, and he has mars and venus in my 7th house. My heart tells me he secretly feels the same way, but the 12th house can have issues of delusion, so only time will truly tell. or I fail? It's difficult to let go with the person who touch our 12th house. The water faucet with no shut off valve, lol. I am an independent person and this is killing me emotionally, physically and psychologically! Pluto in your partners 1st This placement can be very powerful between two people that are attracted to each other in a love relat Jupiter in synastry represents where we will inspire, encourage and instill faith in our partners, and even addthem luck. It's very common to do with placements in this house. How do you reckon you and him approach 12th house matters like spirituality, illusion, Neptune stuff? Idk if its cause its cancer in that house or my super exhausted Jupiter giving me a savior complex but its kinda like familial love like no matter what he always has a place in my heart. Good- have found your posting your threads really helpful to me too..trying to suss all this out too! Venus in partner's 12th house: This indicates a strong subconscious attraction which can sometimes feel confusing, because there is a lot of fog around emotions. I can confirm that he appears in my dreams often and usually these are precognitive dreams. Venus is a beneficial planet in astrology. I wouldnt say its a bad experience but Id personally avoid 12th house placements. I know I can read him more accurately than anyone else in his life and it scares him sometimes. He understands me in a very deep level. Feel free to elaborate in the comments. It may not display this or other websites correctly. This would extend to all aspects of life from music to clothes to cars to home furnishings. As for this guy, hes telling you all you need to know. Your not crazy 12th house connections can stick to your bones. And that he doesn't know what is good for him. Hanging onto him and wishing for return engagements may bring you much heartache, and even loss he might be a sociopath and if that is how he rolls you could lose much in the ways of material goods. I feel I cannot even hide from him. Every time I talk to him about something, I feel loved and at peace. they have told me the same.one of them told me his feelings too late after i was already in a relationship and i met the other while i was in the same one. But I always wonder if he feels the same because the 12th house is illusive, So many sites / people say that it is only the house person that will be affected / obsessed. Although much of the time we find out it's ourself. It means he has an inner conflict going on that is psychological in nature. As if it was not enough he has moon conjunct pluto in the 5th and Venus square Pluto and Venus trine Saturn. I jokingly used to call myself serial monogamist. In this relationship, you tend to agree to a no-obligation arrangement from the start. I could feel something so deep. but I must admit they FASCINATE me!! I can feel him, seeing many good things in him that he never aware. Well, your handle actually matches his Cancer placements, as the Keywords for Cancer is I FEEL, and that is the key to him. It could be due to different things.. like the planet person is insecure/shy/doesn't wanna show their love in an open way, or just that the house person doesn't "get" the planet person's way of loving. Lesson learned: let the men pick ME instead of the other way around. His Moon is in my 12th House, and my Venus is in HIS 12th House, thus I felt captured by him. I find your insight very helpful. Venus the Goddess of love represents our love nature, our desires, our desire for the good things in life, our style, the way we act to attract, what we attract along with what we value and what we have or want. Men take longer to grow up emotionally. During the night I could feel his eyes, some times resting on me. I feel like I know this person really well but maybe this relationship is build on misunderstandings and confusion? There are two zodiac signs associated with Venus in astrology. If you Love this person, let destiny take its course and have faith in divine/universal timing. To this some spice adds venus/neptune square. Its difficultto tell whats going on here. I would be very interested as always in hearing about any findings or further experience or information you can conjur up! All of the guys whom I'm involved above have stellium especially benefic planets in my 12th house. But what made it all so compelling, is that I REMEMBERED HIM FROM TWO PAST LIVES when we were mates!! He has sun conjunct saturn and he also has it with me in synastry as well as my daughter. I am so swamped with feelings for him all the time, am pretty much obsessed, really, but there are no real connections between us except for in the air. Posts: 354From: united statesRegistered: May 2009, Copyright 2000-2014 But afflicted venus indicates the negative effects of the venus/ neptune aspects. Venus conjunct Venus is really good, you will like many of the same things and go about love a similar way. It means he needs to work through then and the only way to do this is to, effectively lie to you, so he can havevtgecspace he needs to work through his issues. Venus in the 12th house Synastry ( Love that's hard to catch) does the planet that falls in your 12th aspect anything else in your chart? The 12th house is mysterious, magical, elusive, highlypsychic, spiritual, and the most interesting thing about it in synastry is that relationships with planets here tend to function mostly on a unconscious level, and even a whole other world entirely.